Archive - straight disaster

Being Childfree Doesn’t Mean Being Anti-Children

How the hell did we end up back at the point where child-free women are accused of hating children? We are not your enemy.

Jul 2 •

June 2025

Performing "Hotness" Was My Side Hustle

Jun 25 •

8:26

I’m not “hot” anymore

But what if it’s actually a good thing?

Jun 22 •

marriage proposals make me gag

Why waiting for a ring isn’t feminist.

Jun 11 •

May 2025

Advice Column #3: Shall I Dump My Anchor Person?

What to do if you fell in love with someone new.

May 31 •

April 2025

March 2025

I’m FINALLY hosting workshops on becoming the feminist fuckgirl in April

In my 33 years on earth, I have been a journalist, an author — and, first of all, a teacher.

Mar 26 •

Why the Hell is Esther Perel Still Allowed to Give Relationship Advice?

Am I the only one who's seeing it?

Mar 5 •

February 2025

You don’t need a dumbphone, you need a new number

Is your phone number really yours, or has it become a relic of past lives and forgotten conversations?

Feb 26 •

Is Telling the Other Woman the Feminist Thing to Do? - A Discussion

Welcome to another episode where we discuss the implications of my latest essay.

Feb 9 •

17:49

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