I’m FINALLY hosting workshops on becoming the feminist fuckgirl in April

In my 33 years on earth, I have been a journalist, an author — and, first of all, a teacher.

I have worked at universities and held workshops independently, and to be honest? I really miss the connections teaching gave me right now. We are in a global crisis of loneliness, university budgets have been cut down, yadayadayada. You know how to read the newspaper.

So, in all desperation and in search of connection, I’ve decided to birth two workshop ideas that have been living rent-free in my head for a couple of months. To my BeLoVeD paid subscribers: you have already received the link to access both of them for free earlier this day ;). For all my free subscribers, you can book each workshop separately.

Prices are fairly low, so I guess spots will be sold out in a week or so. Take a look, give me some feedback if you want — and … see you in April I guess. For the first time, on camera.

xoxo,
fuckgirl

#1: Send That Letter – Unlashing YOUR Truth

How many times have you heard the phrase, “Write a letter to XYZ – and don’t send it!” — But honestly, why the f not?

Why shouldn’t the parents, new girlfriends, or relatives of an abuser know what this person has done to you? Because we’ll be seen as “unstable”? As the crazy ex-girlfriend? I say: Enough with this old-ass misogynistic narrative! It’s 2025 for god’s sake.

The truths we don’t speak ultimately hold us back from moving on emotionally and maintaining our mental well-being. It’s time for the shame to change sides. And what better way to facilitate that than through an honest, carefully considered letter?

In this workshop, we’ll write letters together that we can actually send out later. I’ll give you your permission if you still need one 😉 I’ll also share my own experiences about what to consider and prepare — legally and content-wise — to make sure your letter has exactly the impact you envision.

This isn’t primarily about revenge. It’s about finally getting this story out of your system — and ensuring the responsible parties face consequences.

Heads up: The workshop will be held in English, but of course, you can write your letter in any other language if you prefer so.

Workshop Date:
📅 Sunday, April 13
🗣️Language: English
Duration: +- 2 hours

🕖 7:00 PM CEST (Berlin, Central European Summer Time)

• 1:00 PM EDT (New York, Eastern Daylight Time)

• 10:00 AM PDT (California, Pacific Daylight Time)

Location: Zoom

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#2: #TrustHisEx: Do you really know who he is?

Have you ever had that sinking feeling that something is off in your relationship, but you’re not sure what it is?

The truth is, women often experience the same types of abuse and manipulation from the same men. The problem? The shame of reaching out to his ex is just too big. Think “Crazy-Ex-Girlfriend” or “But she must have contributed to it somehow, right?”

NO!
ON THE CONTRARY.

In a situation like this, it’s absolutely essential to know what his ex has to say. Maybe she’s been through the same drama. Either way, life is too short to keep stumbling around in the dark.

So, let’s go! It’s time to support each other, rather than getting lost in distrust and shame.

What can you expect from this workshop?

#TrustHisEx is not just a hashtag – it’s a movement that helps us uncover the truth and protect ourselves from toxic men.

• The Hashtag Explained: Why contacting his ex is not “crazy” or “stalker-ish,” but smart and necessary.
• Sharing Experiences: You’re not the first one to suspect something’s wrong. We’ll openly talk about what we can discover – and the consequences of that.
• Legal and Emotional Aspects: How to approach contacting his ex respectfully? We’ll cover what you need to consider to stay safe and confident while doing so.

Why is this important?

• No More Shame: Reaching out to his ex is not a betrayal of “your man.” It’s self-protection. You have the right to know the truth before getting involved in something that could harm you.
• No “Victim” Mentality: We are not victims. We are feminists making smart decisions and taking control of our lives.
• Prevention is Everything: You don’t have to go through the whole story yourself if someone else has already been through it.

In this workshop, you’ll learn how to use #TrustHisEx on social media to your advantage to protect yourself and others.

Remember: You are not crazy. You are smart. And you have the right to know the truth and protect yourself from the crap before it has a chance to enter your life.

Workshop Date:
📅 Sunday, April 27
🗣️Language: English
⏳Duration: 2 hours

🕖 7:00 PM CEST (Berlin, Central European Summer Time)

• 1:00 PM EDT (New York, Eastern Daylight Time)

• 10:00 AM PDT (California, Pacific Daylight Time)

Location: Zoom

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